Try to remember one goal or dream that you have accomplished without getting out of your comfort zone?. I know that doing things you are intimidated of, is very hard and very difficult to do. However, that is when you have to balance the desire you have to accomplish your goals and the desire you have of not getting out of your comfort zone and continuing feeding your fears. I always used to say, I will just go with the flow. But in reality, we ourselves are the flow. We are the owner’s of our own decisions and of our own thoughts. Getting out of your comfort zone has a lot to do with fear. But, fear is a creation of our own mind. It is a masterpiece we have created or that has been created by our surroundings. Sometimes the people we surround ourselves with are the biggest influence in decisions we make. most of the time they don’t help us see past our fears, instead they feed us into it. We must learn how to pull away from these surroundings, even if they are our loved ones.
Have you ever wondered how you became to fear obstacles?.
It is all in our mind, we are so afraid to fail or to get hurt that we can’t see past that fear barrier. We are so afraid to make the same mistake someone else made, we are so afraid to disappoint ourselves and our families. But how can we fear failure without even trying?. Imagine if Thomas Edison, or Steve Jobs gave up when they failed for the first time?. Be realistic with yourself, do you really want to accomplish your goals?. Are you going to keep putting excuses that are only affecting no one but yourself ?. Everyday that goes by, will never be returned to you. The hardest part of starting something is starting. It is not going to be easy, but it is going to be worth it. Stop creating more fears in your mind, stop comparing yourself with others, stop thinking how long it is going to take for you to succeed on your goals. Everything takes times, but regardless time will still pass, it will not stop for anything or anyone.
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